jueves, 6 de marzo de 2008

Life's about



It is simple,
Life’s about smiling and laughing
Life’s about dreaming.
The person that doesn’t dream has lost its essence, its inner child - the child that was amazed about colours, sounds and tastes.

Life’s about enjoying the good times and seeing the purpose of the bad times
Life’s about opening your mind to new, different things, just for the hell of it.



Life’s about trying,
Life’s about aiming so high that it almost seems impossible,

Life’s about hoping, and praying and believing that things just happen for the best.
Life’s perfect, what’s meant to stay will stay. Otherwise it wont go in your direction.

Life’s about assuming your responsibilities and finishing them doing your best effort.
Life’s about giving and expecting nothing in return.


Life’s about loving.
Love makes our life exciting or miserable at times, even though it’s a complicated process –falling in love, loving someone, losing them it’s worth every second.
Life’s about forgiving and never regretting, there’s no point in being resentful - it doesn’t bring anything good for you, right?

Life’s about learning, you’ll learn that u never stop learning…
…learning to appreciate each thing that comes to your life
nothing is there on luck: everything has its purpose.
…learn to set up goals for your life and achieve them,
and fight for them, and never, never, never give up.

At the end “la vida es un ratico”, we have to spend time smartly
otherwise we are not taking a good use of our time given in this earth

Oohhh love... :)


I was holding on to him so hard that I didn't realize I was losing myself... I actually lost myself... because when I wondered what would happen if he told me that he doesn't love me anymore... ok, I thought... he has the right to choose who he wants to love..but then I thought...what about me...where would I be left?
I'd be nothing... no one... with no direction in life...
no no no... I won't let that happen I'm not going to end up behind some man.... I have to shine first.

All I know at this point is, that when I see his pictures I still get this feeling inside of happiness and hope and tenderness... kind of butterflies in the stomach but not so shallow. its a little more intense.
I remember waking up next to him and just seeing his calmness, his perfect smile, his manly neck, comfy arms around me and just giving thanks to God and life... for putting him on my destiny.


What happened to this strong love?
I remember that I prayed for that love to last, but it got to a point where we wouldn't be on the same page: we wanted different things from life and then we lost it.I was asking too much from him and he was losing interest in me.
I wished from my heart to get back together,... but it just wasn't the same. I'd still have this anger inside.....

I believe time pretty much heals everything..... I mean I've stopped feeling obsesed about him... and this happened a long time ago..... I didn't even realize when...
Now I'm at the position where I only want him to be happy. I love him of course but I won't force anything... If he's not happy with me then it's OK. I accept it.


Ok so lets learn from this.....What do I want in a man:
I want someone supportive. who will understand me,
someone who'd know when I need my space, and when I need a comforting hug, or when I need a kiss.
I want someone who can commit to our goals as a couple. Because in a couple there are two, who in mind and heart become one.
I want someone who likes children because it implies patience and tenderness, and I admit that women get crazy sometimes... and men have to deal with that.
I want someone who will communicate with me.... He needs to tell me what he feels, I'm not a mind reader... sometimes I can percieve.. but not always.
I want to feel protection in his arms and passion in his kisses.
Someone who will appreciate what I do for him..because I'm that kind of person I like to spoil them....
Of course I would give him his freedom and privacy, every man needs that, and a man needs to be appreciated.. of course I want to be proud of him.. you know what they say... "behind every great man there's a great woman"
Ok so as long as I can trust him... I'd love him.

Tomorrow


Yesterday is history, it has become a part of us.
Today is our choice, were u wanna be is where u are.
Tomorrow is uncertain. is not a fact. it is an unpathed water.

"Take out of your wasted honor, every little past frustration
Take all of your so called problems, better put them in quotations
Say what you need to say...
Walkin like a one man army, fightin with the shadows in your head
Living out the same old moment, knowing you’d be better off instead
If you could only ..Say what you need to say
Have no fear for giving in, Have no fear for giving over
You better know that in the end its better to say too much
Than to never to say what you need to say again
Even if your hands are shaking and your faith is broken
Even as the eyes are closing, do it with a heart wide open
Why? Say what you need to say" *

we spend so much time in nonsenses, we actually waste most of our live if u think like that.
if we choose to learn form every situation that we go by then our life is going to be so much better...
the thing is to experience new things, to live to the most, without harming others. making our life a unique Life

Routine is the enemy of greatness, it is our automatic, or autopilot mode. we run through a day doing certain things that become mechanical.. we can't help but do this cause there are some things that do not require much effort.
I believe we should avoid doing this, or else we'd became robots who don't appreciate their surroundings
we should never stop our amusement for every thing...its a matter of quality rather than quantity.
do u think that the poeple who've seen most of our world are the ones who have traveled the most? no. absolutely not.
they are the people who have enjoyed more their lives... making it a once in a lifetime experience...

In the end... tomorrow is gonna be a new day .. al the harms will be on a yesterday page of our life...

I realized this when I heard the song Say from John Mayer... which is the soundtrack from "The Bucket list"

Wisdom



There are so many things waiting to be seen, so many books waiting to be read, so many stories to be told, so many songs to be heard.... Starting with the ones that are next to us, they are a whole different universe....

"No one is wise by birth, for wisdom results from one's efforts" said sri tirumalai
As I write this I realized there's so little time to do, learn, and experience so many things and knowledge.

We were given a definte existance... thus we pass through our existence just living the day.... when we should be learning most of the time.

knowing others is inteligence, knowing yourself is true wisdom is something that my grandma told me...
grandparents are so wise... I love hearing her stories... ( well to me they are stories... but it is actually part of her life)

There's so much that I can't even explain it.. its amazing.. how big is our universe....
A special tool that we humans were given to pass on our wisdom is the ability to express ourselves... that is so important... that is the only way of keeping the knowledge.... so Share it!

in the end it is only a matter of attitude as I always say.
to live as much as we want and enjoy the majority of our existance given in this earth.. or we can pass this life as another living mass

It's up to you

Its amazing how we learn to depend on things.
Men were created without any addition to its body. We were built in such a perfect way, that we should be self-sufficient.. to survive, at least.
Nowadays we've evolved into dependent beings of other creations or even other persons. That's even more absurd, because we make ourselves believe that without some particular person we couldn't breathe or something. There's no such thing. we make-believe this to our mind.
With the mind that we were given, we made it to develop certain appliances to help us go through our daily lives. Such improvement was given to our lives, to the point were we created most of things we use daily.
I just proved to myself that it is all up to you.


its up to one.
we are capable of doing anything we'd like to achieve. its an attitude issue.
it has to do with our will. with our commitment to achieving those goals.
and especially about finding what is That which we want to get, feel , achieve, experience.

As someone said, life's meant to be wonderful. we are meant to be whatever it is that we want to be. that is wonderful.

little me



Today has been a good day.. Ive got to the point where I felt very little. I mean I know a lot about myself an my own universe... I felt like I know so little about life.
I know so little about everything.there's so much to do and learn in life that I have not enough time to learn it, unless I start now.
ok, this is what I know... this is about myself... at this point Me and my life it have been my major study. I have been studying myself for the last 21 years....



I'm a dreamer- always drifting off, my imagination takes control. I have big ideas and cool calm manner.
A go-getter - living life two steps ahead of the rest, I'm racing ahead. I believe my drive and curiosity will take me all over the world, though sometimes I need to be told it's good to slow down.
An easy rider- always taking life as it comes, and living the moment,. I dont get fazed by life... I just breeze through
I'm wild cat- live life to the full, take any opportunity that's given to me. Always first to take the plunge I am confident and sometimes a little wild.
I'm sophisticate - like to live the high life: mixing in the right circles; always look their best; I like to impress and make an impact.
I'm a junkie monkey - don't have rules, and don't like trestrictions. I make my own choices, and do as I please. for me pleasure always comes first.
back to basics- sriving for a simpler life, done without disposable trends - I'm inspired by nature and longevity.


A high time roller- only seen in the best, and the finest, love top quality, high-end glamour...always adding a touch of sophistication to the proceedings.
A new wave puritan- strict, organised, and ever so neat - I practice the art of self-discipline. I like things done simply but with an eye for detail.
a conqueror- full of ambition, and energy - cavalier and always moving onto the next level.
a worker bee- my ambition drives me through life - work is my no.1 priority. diligent and commited.
an escape artist- I'm forever slipping off, getting away from the rat race, and recharging those batteries.
independent and thoughtful - I know myself pretty well.
A thriller-I have a good sense of fun and an infectious giggle. I can make the best of any situation...I've been told that it's always a lot of fun to be around me... I love to laugh and have a bit of naughty side, being good all the time is a boring.
I'm touchy feely...love is about human contact - the nitty gritty.
I am very physical- a high sex drive demands plenty attention.
I'm nice n' cheesy...flowers and chocolate are a way to my heart. I believe chivalry is not dead, I expect to be wooed - love like it is in the movies.
I'm a home soul..my heart is always in the nest, I place real importance on friendships. I'm family minded and like to forge strong relationships.
a love bug.. the type to fall in love a thousand times a day. My feelings snowball quickly but I'm full of passion.

A real romantic and a bit of a dreamer. Ok life may not be a movie but what's wrong with thinking it is?
freedom- I think of living for the here and now. I'm pretty fearless and take every opportunity given to me.
As for music, it's the soundtrack to my world. It gives me focus and concentration - sometimes I find it hard to switch off.
I am happy spending time alone.
I have a taste for the exotic: I love feeling the sea breeze in my hair, the sun on my skin, slip those shoes off and feel the sand between my toes.

insatiable! is what someone told me once.... why? because my thirst for affection never drops.
I know a little bit about people.. about human relations. I am a good advisor they say.. I'm good with people...